I realized that I was going to need to step. up. my. game.
I have had several of these "come to Jesus" moments in my career as a mother, when I realize that I might lose my mind if I don't get organized. Usually when this happens I cry... and then send out a desperate (and sometimes whiny) plea for prayer... and then I get a big glass of coke zero, pick and appropriate pandora station and "go pro".
In Steven Pressfield's inspiring book called The War of Art he talks a lot about becoming a professional... it is a book written mostly for artist, musician and writers, but I have found a lot of crossover in all areas of my life... including parenting.
On this particular morning, my organizational crisis had to do with chores... more specifically, getting my kids to do them. I have been gathering resources on this topic for a while and have tried a few packaged systems (like this great one from Dave Ramsey)... but I wanted something that felt simple, adjustable, clean and also incorporated some handwriting practice for my kids. This is what I finally came up with after a week of adjustments.
daily unpaid & weekly paid must be done before extras there is a bonus if some of the daily unpaid are done without me having to ask |
I am happy to report that I didn't go crazy... and (by the grace of God) had a wonderful week with my kids. Chores got done and we had heaps of fun exploring New Zealand. In other news... Jonah is crawling.
I might buy that Dave Ramsey financial peace jr for the kids for Christmas! Great idea! (is that a terrible Christmas gift!? But if I'm buying it, I may as well wrap it up as a gift!)
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Not a bad Christmas present at all... Joel Rakes actually gave it to us as a Christmas gift a few years ago (he works for the Lampo Group/Ramsey). We really worked it one summer and then lost momentum when school started. Good stuff.
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